tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post7745965370024029401..comments2021-11-28T21:01:49.150-06:00Comments on Nothing Without You: ConfusionRaeAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07395752119260663982noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-84555439101750145442013-01-31T09:58:24.209-06:002013-01-31T09:58:24.209-06:00No one, just no one, GETS IT, unless they have los...No one, just no one, GETS IT, unless they have lost a baby. mijkenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07236909318307921321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-50411031819694078512013-01-05T22:17:11.329-06:002013-01-05T22:17:11.329-06:00Your friends have stated it well and I agree with ...Your friends have stated it well and I agree with them. You have lots of hugs from me!Michele Struckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16058003793129022133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-68776008058645632142013-01-05T22:09:33.161-06:002013-01-05T22:09:33.161-06:00RaeAnne, Bryan, I am so sorry! I cannot imagine an...RaeAnne, Bryan, I am so sorry! I cannot imagine anyone judging you, not understanding your devastation over the loss of your son, or saying anything hurtful in any way. You suffered the one loss no parent should ever have to endure. There is no explaining it away, saying comforting words to ease the pain, or "doing" things to help. You hurt, it sucks, and life is never the same. <br />I still pray for the three of you every time I pray. I will continue to do so. I cannot imagine your pain or confusion. I cannot imagine the struggle with God because there is no sense. There is no reason you should have had this happen. There is every reason why you should have had Samuel, healthy and thriving and being there with you now. <br />If there is anything I can do/pray for you guys specifically I certainly will. Please know you are absolutely right to feel everything you feel and to have the right to express it in any way that works for you. You don't have to answer to others, just take care of you, your marriage, and your hearts. We love you and will continue to lift you in prayer but now will also pray prayers of protection. I'm so sorry you are living this hell. All I have to offer you is love and hugs. Peghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07364903312771500120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-8895780082694425582013-01-04T09:58:47.763-06:002013-01-04T09:58:47.763-06:00I wish people would stop looking at things through...I wish people would stop looking at things through their eyes and just take a second to see it through the grieving family's eyes. Everyone is so wrapped up in themselves that they only see what affects them, they don't want a different view point. It's so sad that compassion seems to be a dying quality of humanity. Hugs to you.Harlowehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01871527703891901897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-31399401993355799832013-01-04T08:24:35.975-06:002013-01-04T08:24:35.975-06:00I totally agree with Catherine, RaeAnne. Other pe...I totally agree with Catherine, RaeAnne. Other people need to think! You are still so raw in hurt and it doesn't help the situation when salt is poured into your wounds. I wish for you lots of love and understanding. Warm hugs always....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06137820637811811160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-44438625385117116132013-01-03T23:27:12.686-06:002013-01-03T23:27:12.686-06:00Thank you so much! It means so much that you under...Thank you so much! It means so much that you understand.RaeAnnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07395752119260663982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-8562456167650289362013-01-03T22:21:03.101-06:002013-01-03T22:21:03.101-06:00I'm SO sorry RaeAnne... I actually thought you...I'm SO sorry RaeAnne... I actually thought your FB post was very considerate and thoughtful, and in my opinion, quite understandable. I really don't get why people only care about themselves... is losing a FB friend really the end of the world? I mean we lost our children and everyone else is off in la-la land with no sense of what is important. I wish my biggest problem in life was my FB account. Anyhow, I did something similar after we lost Gabriel, but didn't give any warning.. just started un-friending people who weren't supportive or who constantly posted pics of their babies. I even considered just closing my account, but decided that I really do need the support that I get from my BL groups. Sending HUGS to you!Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13860870910413734703noreply@blogger.com