tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post4081755239449974933..comments2021-11-28T21:01:49.150-06:00Comments on Nothing Without You: the big planRaeAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07395752119260663982noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-20259158420615814642013-04-23T20:37:15.495-05:002013-04-23T20:37:15.495-05:00I wish you didnt belong to this club either. I hat...I wish you didnt belong to this club either. I hate this club. What makes it better for me is sharing his story and hoping that maybe another member of the club can feel less alone. That is the positive that I try to make out of it. Its so hard belonging to this club. Glad you didn't take the crib down! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16589192780867730261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4418370942689142295.post-11210952062484438572013-04-19T08:43:03.592-05:002013-04-19T08:43:03.592-05:00I think you are so correct in that you can't r...I think you are so correct in that you can't run from your grief. The more you run from it, the harder it is to live with. Grief is hard, learning to live with your grief is hard, everything about this is hard, but it's something that can be done...we don't really have much of a choice. We either live in the deep trenches of grief, hanging on to the pain of our loss, or slowly, excruciatingly, scratch and crawl our way towards light. A light where we still miss and love our kids, but can think of them without all of the pain.Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04066881815556809319noreply@blogger.com